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Online violence is non-negotiable

Online violence is non-negotiable

Certainly, not everything is rosy when we interact with people: we have to talk about violence online.

This problem needs to be made visible and addressed to guarantee a better coexistence online.

How can we define it?

We define it as a set of attitudes or behaviors that are perpetrated online from person to person.

These cause harm or discomfort, and can even compromise the psychological, emotional, and physical integrity of users.

Some of them range from hostile messages with discrimination, verbal attacks, to cyberbullying or identity theft, the truth is that there is a great variety of these types of violence.

Check the following link from the Save the Children Organization where you can learn more about the 9 most common types.

Why is it necessary to address violence online?

In the use of Social Media and dating apps, we will point out some reasons:

It can be dangerous to your health

Online violence negatively affects our online experience and can impact our physical or mental health too.

It happens more often than you think

These acts of violence occur so frequently that users mistakenly associate it with technology.

The authors hide behind the screen

Anonymity makes it easier for these events to happen naturally and often with impunity.

But what can we do about it?

To begin with, digital citizenship education is necessary, promoting values ​​and ethics to better use these services.

Likewise, we need to teach people core values ​​such as respect and tolerance to guarantee coexistence online.

Finally, It is important to learn to identify and recognize how digital violence manifests itself in these environments.

All this so that users can recognize these profiles and scenarios in time to prevent them.

If you want to learn more about how to avoid this type of situation or have more strategies to address it, contact me or write to info@mindful–linking.com to make your online experience safer.

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Ideas to chat lightly and go further

Ideas to chat lightly and go further

At your fingertips is the power to make the most of online dating, and taking advantage of these services. That’s why we propose six ideas to chat lightly and give these tools another chance:

Open your mind!

Thank technology for connecting with the people with whom you will have memorable stories and experiences in your life

Also, there’s a variety of positive connections along with interesting people you could meet online

Let go of bad experiences!


Leave behind the bad profiles or disastrous dates that you have had as well as other bad experiences.

These situations often affect the way we use technology.

Virtuality is not dangerous


Delete from your mind the harmful myth that the Internet and/or Social Media/apps are full of villains, liars, anti-social or related.

Virtuality is not bad in itself, it is simply a tool we can use better.

Practice makes perfect!


It is necessary to refresh what you already know and incorporate new knowledge and skills, therefore you’ll look at online socialization with new eyes.


All new talents develop with practice, you can do it too!

Images are not everything


On the Internet, other aspects also communicate and improve the experience: your online presence and your digital narrative.

These help you make a better impression on those you care to connect with!

There are networks and apps for all tastes


You can always meet and meet people like you, with similar interests and similar visions of life.

The important thing is to find the one that best suits what you need, and the type of people you want to meet.

Without a doubt, if you take into account these ideas to chat lighter, your online relationships will definitely reach a better destination.

Write to [email protected] or contact us to learn more about these ideas to chat lightly and go further

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How to move from virtuality to reality?

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Moving from virtuality to reality may be challenging. It may be that our virtual relationships are very similar to each other.

Also, some of them may not reach a real destination. This doesn’t have to be this way!

First, remember that the quality of our life is proportional to the good connections we establish with others.

Without a doubt, technology is our ally to improve our social relationships.

Certainly, Social Media immerse us in a sea of ​​profiles where it is necessary to learn how to navigate better.

Where do you start, then?

For this reason, it is necessary to use these tools with awareness, assessing how and why we use them for.

The second thing is to understand that people are engines of change, with whom we can live great experiences.

Surely sometimes you have been carried away by the image of someone, and the truth is that you can go further.

Our goal will be to move from virtuality to the real world, where these learnings will materialize alongside each other.

Third, there is a way and it consists of betting on digital education by developing new skills to perform better online.

Virtuality vs reality: shortening distance

Each online meeting hides a potential to live transformative experiences outside of it.

Finally, our destination is to live relationships that connect us with the joy of living with responsibility towards ourselves and others.

Also, remember that these skills develop over time and with practice.

If you are interested in learning more about communication and relationships online, this is the place for you!

If you have a lot or a little experience in the field, there is always a way to do it better!

We offer you personalized sessions to support you in any of the stages that you need to improve.

For this reason, we will accompany you remotely and in the comfort of your home or office.

What are you waiting for?

Write an email to [email protected]https://mindful-linking.com/en/contact-me/ if you want to make relationships happen from virtuality to reality.

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Online relationships that will add up to your life

Online relationships that will add up to your life

Step by step for better connections

Some still believe that it is dangerous to meet people through apps and to have relationships online. Completely false!

First, I will teach you new skills to achieve assertive communication and healthy relationships in digital environments.

Second, we will learn how the concepts of image and identity help you express the best of yourself.

Also, you will learn what good online interactions look and feel like, beyond photos.

Looking good is important, but don’t forget that magic happens through words as well!

Therefore, it is important to create conversations where both people feel good, value, and respect each other.

Third, we will make online relationships a safer adventure, after learning about how to prevent digital violence.

On-screen violence manifests itself in many forms, ranging from hostile actions to aggressive profiling. You will know how to recognize them in time!

Technology brings us closer, knowing how to use it connects us

Finally, meeting people online is an art, I will guide you so that you can live better online experiences and memorable stories with other people who are looking for the same thing as you.

Technology is a perfect way to find profiles that have common interests, to get to know and be known.

And best of all, these skills will improve both your personal and professional life.

It doesn’t matter if you are a beginner or advanced, everyone can learn and improve any part of the process!

We will create a personalized plan to address those areas where you think you need more attention.

I want you to know that you can count on me, to guide and advise you at all times. Write to [email protected] to schedule a session.

Harnessing the full potential of technology will be at your fingertips today more than ever. Check it out!

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